Why Do Men Keep Tabs On Women They Don't Want?

[1magnificent1]

I have told this dude to kiss my ass like 5 times over the last year or so...we NEVER dated...not once, booty call. Thats all.

Somehow a one night stand turned into him pushing me to apply for a job at his company and him spending time with me over three days. :smh:

I knew he was not a person worthy of my time outside the bedroom so I told him to have a nice life...he contacted me a couple months later with some lame compliment. I didn't reply for a couple months...he said something he should not have said and I told him to lose my number and kick fucking rocks.

Mind you at this point I hadn't seen him for 7 months...

Three months later, he contacts me out of the blue saying he hadn't heard from me and he was just wondering how I was doing. I kindly let his ass know that he was full of shit and had no real concerns about my well being and to leave me the hell alone.

I have a feeling he will contact me again...changing my number isn't an option.

How can I get this mutha fucka to leave me the hell alone PERIOD.

He isn't a scrub so why don't he just leave me the fuck alone? :hmm:

[sevenatenine]

How about you just flat out ignore his calls.

Or instant messages or emails, etc...

It won't kill him if u don't respond.

[izayoi]

Seven is speaking from that practical man point of view.

1mag I have been there. :smh:
Any message you have to send must be consistent for a potential stalker to get the message. Seven's approach is definetly consistent.

Just chalk it up to the overwhelming pleasure of your company and keep it moving.

Good luck.

[!!*10der*!!]

Good luck with that one, been there done that. It took years for him to finally chill out.