How far is too far?

[Lovely N]

What does it take to make you end a relationship? (friendship or romantic relationship)

Is it cheating, lying, stealing? How many times can it happen and you forgive the person before calling it quits? Just curious...

[Cleopatra_J]

I think it depends...

Friendships would take longer to dissolve depending on the nature of the reason I want it to end. If its blatant mistrust or deceit, like that heffa stole from me, then it would be immediate. But if its simple disagreements probably longer because disagreements are bound to happen..

Relationships... well.. thats tough and depends..

[Lovely N]

I think it depends...

Friendships would take longer to dissolve depending on the nature of the reason I want it to end. If its blatant mistrust or deceit, like that heffa stole from me, then it would be immediate. But if its simple disagreements probably longer because disagreements are bound to happen..

Relationships... well.. thats tough and depends..
I feel you. For friendships with male or female friends, it would take a lot, something outrageous for me to completely stop associating with them.

Relationships it doesn't take much--especially if it is early on in the relationship. A brother can talk too much, not be romantic enough, be too focused on himself, etc. and I might end it. I figure if something gets on my nerves a lot now, it will drive me nuts down the road. So I get out early...

[Lovely N]

I've been trying to hang in a little longer and let the person know where I'm feeling uncomrfortable, but it's a struggle...

[Cleopatra_J]

I feel you. For friendships with male or female friends, it would take a lot, something outrageous for me to completely stop associating with them.

Relationships it doesn't take much--especially if it is early on in the relationship. A brother can talk too much, not be romantic enough, be too focused on himself, etc. and I might end it. I figure if something gets on my nerves a lot now, it will drive me nuts down the road. So I get out early...

LOL especially when you're just beginning to get to know someone, all it takes is for you to annoy me once and I'm done..

But if its someone who've we've been kicking it for awhile, and you know we are in L-O-V-E or almost there.. I might be a little more lenient with small annoyances..

[OnyxFemme]

For me repetitive bad behavior that doesnt end.....It ended my marriage.:smh:

[ladyscorpio]

What does it take to make you end a relationship? (friendship or romantic relationship)

Is it cheating, lying, stealing? How many times can it happen and you forgive the person before calling it quits? Just curious...

Negative vibes. No matter who the person is. If its making me act differently from my true self then its NOT something that I require in my life.

[Entrepronegro]

if someone is cheating on you I would just say get out of the relationship cause it's obvious that isn't the right person for you.